A real convo between a dear friend and me :
~ ” Why cheat? if your not happy, just leave.But leave not silently dare to speak and leave.
Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of withering, of tarnishing.:X 
😦 ”
~ ” When your love cheats just go in past and think the first lie he said to you was I LOVE YOU. cos if it was true love no one can make space between two. ”
~ ” Hmmmm 😐 😦 :C ”
Thank you again @ Hyde Park Poetry for the award. I am glad, delighted, indebted and loved.. once again overwhelmed! 🙂
Purvi's Purple Petals 
Personally I don’t agree that the first I love you would automatically become a lie. People change, situations change. Relationships take work, and sometimes things don’t work out. I agree that it is easier on all if you leave and don’t cheat, but if you are vulnerable and someone steps into that vacuum left by a partner that is not emotionally available – things might happen if you are not strong enough.
And – just a pet peeve here – why is it always “HE” that cheats – ‘the first lie that HE said…’ Women cheat too….
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I do not disagree with you bajan. 🙂 But ‘all adages do not fit all, all the time’ is true too. So yes, the first “I Love you’ might not automatically be a lie for many, but for some it is. This post is about those cheats. Also, whatever we express, comes from what we want to say at a particular point of time. I meant to write about men so i did. I completely understand that women cheat too. there are many I know, who have done it. Infact, the person I spoke about there, the one he has joined now, that woman herself has prbbly ditched someone. ‘He’ is not a gender bias here, it is the first address we use, as taught in our gender biased grammar. 😛 I could not have possibly used ‘it’ here, sorry. 😀
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LOL “I could not have possibly used ‘it’ here, sorry.” LOL ok point taken hehe
Yeah I get your point about there being those ppl who lie immediately to get what they want. For sure.
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hi Purvi,
Just a hi from here. Before I left fb, it seemed like you had abandoned it.
How you doing these days?
I hope everything is well and I wish you the bests.
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Well, things have been on a down swing, and though I have been writing in the mind a lot, I have not been able to pen as much. Wish to accomplish that soon. Hoping to reconnect with you at facebook. 🙂
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I agree why cheat really….just leave …
So true 😦
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The heart feels lighter to know that my readers find compatibility with my thoughts. Thank you Ladywhispers..!
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very lovely discussions, wow.
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Happy February Birthday to you.
hope all is well, share a piece of your poetry with us if you could, best wishes.
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Yes Jingle, thank you for the invite. have been through hell and still going through, but am trying real hard to drop in between and keep poetry alive for myself. Thanks for always being there. 🙂
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smart thinking, wow.
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Thanks, yes learnt the bitter way
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great one, well done.
🙂
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Thank you Paris ! 🙂
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Not that I agree with this, but I’ve heard it said, “it’s like buying a new car”. “If you own a car it’s too hard to live without one.”
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I understand what u mean, Booguloo… I’ve had a driver’s license since I was 17 … so the concept of being without a car scares the sh*t out of me LOL “What? Catch a *BUS*? Oh the horror!” LOL
I’m currently out of an eight year relationship – and yeah it feels like not having a car for so long too …. takes a while to adjust….
Yeah, but like you say, I dont agree with cheating either – I’m on the lookout for a new car! 😉
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This may be the time to take a bus for a while. We normally try to find the same make and model right away without learning the real cost of that make and model. Just sayin….
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Well said. Well – onto the bus station to buy tokens 🙂
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True yeah, Bajan & booguloo, both of you! 😀
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